SHIKATA GA NAI

Everyday we have choices. We are able see what is not working or to notice what is working. To see abundance or scarcity. To choose joy and gratitude or hurt and revenge. The way we perceive ourselves and others makes us realize that we are imperfect and yet we hold ourselves to high standards. But it’s okay to let go.

Shikata Ga Nai is a Japanese phrase which means to let go of what can’t be changed. It’s the realization that some things are beyond our control and to be at peace with that. By letting go, one can focus on what one can change.

As we draw near to the end of yet another year, I thank the Lord that I am able to choose the blessings not the “blah’s”; choose the laughter over the tears; to learn from the lessons and cheer for the challenges that I’ve been through.

I want to walk in kindness, go offline now and then or sit in the stillness. I want to take deep breaths and take time with those I love. I want to be grateful for all I have, forgive others and even myself praising God for another morning. I want to play, laugh and sleep well. These are the choices I want more of.

As we celebrate the birth of Jesus this Christmas season, we have every reason to share the goodness of God. May He guide us as we are filled with joy, wisdom and courage. I choose to let His light shine and surrender all my plans to His perfect will in my life.

Have a blessed Christmas and may we choose Jesus in 2026 and beyond.

 Jesus said to him, “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me.” John 14:6